An Old Friend
By Kim Rossi
My oldest daughter was home from her day program yesterday - ever present staffing issues mean 1, 2 and as many as 3 days a week home. We went to the library because she was asking about the old Spot the Dog books. We found two in the stacks. Then she spied the children's section computers and sat herself right down.
Within a minute, she was cheerfully surfing the EdMark games that she LOVED in her childhood. Those old CD-ROM games don't play automatically on newer home computers, and haven't for many years. She's resorted to finding them on YouTube and watching others play them, which is a shame. Because, while I always want to bring her forward, she loved those games and was reading, thinking, answering questions and engaged while using them. I wasn't at all surprised when she said what was on the NEXT screen before it popped up having remembered it for more than 20 years.
The Sesame Street series from Sony was clever and interesting, as was Elmo's Art Workshop. EdMark, with Millie's Math House, Bailey's Book House and Sammy's Science House. All geared to youngsters, and yet, still provided an opportunity to her. Apps aren't the same. I don't know why, they just aren't.
I updated her library card while there. And to my surprise, the librarian was a former classmate of my youngest daughter. She's a college graduate, working full time in the library. That stung a bit, as so many chance meetings do now that my daughters are adults. Still, it was nice to see her.
How do you bring your older kids forward, while respecting their needs and desires?
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My sons still love Legos.
The company has wisely tapped into this market and now designs more complex models for adults. Evidently there are websites that fans buy and sell their vintage models. Some are now worth a bit of money. I am sure you could find these vintage games and game players online. Or start a website yourself- vintage 80's games/computers that autistic adults still like.
Posted by: Emmaphiladelphia | October 10, 2024 at 04:23 PM
I can picture the graphics! And Arthur's birthday and Dr Seuss' ABCs. With Ichabod and Izzy!
Posted by: Kim | October 10, 2024 at 01:36 PM
We liked "Just Grandma and Me", a Living Books CD-ROM based on the Little Critter book series. Our daughter could click on things to make them do things. But yes, around 20 years ago, the CD-ROMs no longer worked with the newer computers. I had checked into this, hoping for our son to use this. It's too bad they didn't update the program somehow.
Posted by: lorim | October 10, 2024 at 12:40 PM
Kim-my adult son is no longer attending his day program because it was closed for three years due to Covid and they had a Zoom platform that he really enjoyed. He and a few other young men from his program are all now doing a home Zoom program with the same staff member. The program is fun and educational as well. He also has a tutor coming to work on academics and he especially likes math.
My son also used to love playing Sammy's Science House, Bailey's Book House, Millie's Math House and we had to keep those old programs and an old computer that is the only one he can still play them on. He also loves them and has another one called Math Munchers that his teacher had given him. I know it is hard to accept that these programs are still some of their favorites at their adult age, but they enjoy them and that is what really matters. He also spends a lot of time on YouTube looking up all kinds of subjects that interest him and they are also educational.
I know what you mean when you hear about adults their age who have now grown up and gone to college or gotten married or started a family when we are left behind and it does hurt inside and is hard to accept. I am still researching many clinical trials going on now that are testing medications that address the core symptoms of autism and they have been going in a positive direction. This gives me hope that the time will soon come for the miracle we have been praying for all these years.
Thank you for posting this as I need to know I am not alone and for doing such a great job for us all.
Posted by: Gayle | October 10, 2024 at 09:33 AM
Anything that they show an interest is the way to go good on your girl Kim God Bless.
Pharma For Prison
MMR RIP
Posted by: Angus Files | October 10, 2024 at 04:01 AM
It’s not easy. My son still likes Elmo but has also “advanced” to Arthur. The other day he found the Teletubbies again . I hadn’t seen him watch them in a very long time…but he was very happy to find them.
Posted by: 4Bobby | October 09, 2024 at 11:35 PM
My 24 year old son with Level 3 autism has been living in a ServiceNet residence with 3 housemates for a few months. They also deal with staffing issues and it is a challenge to keep all 4 of the young men living in the house active. In a parallel universe, this year, one of the boys that started preschool at the same time as my son graduated from UMass and got married.
My son comes home to visit at least once a week. We were having pizza for dinner recently and instead of watching his usual Disney+ movies we watched The Talking Heads Stop Making Sense concert movie that I had seen in the theater with my friends in high school in the 80's. He actually bopped his head along with the music and seemed to enjoy it. No complaints to his old mom!
Posted by: Lisa M Adams | October 09, 2024 at 09:15 AM