Avonte Oquendo, 14, Preverbal Autism, Missing From Queens NY
We've been following and updating the Avonte Oquendo story on our FB and Twitter feeds. In case you have not heard, Avonte eloped from his school in Queens, New York and has not been seen since the 4th.. His family is moving heaven and earth to find him. Officials have stopped train work - Avonte loves trains and there is the hope he is alive somewhere in the subway or commuter train system.
Please send out good thoughts, prayers if you are so inclined, and alert anyone you know in New York City, New Jersey and Connecticut that Avonte may have boarded a train and been transported away from his family.
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From ABC New York:
LONG ISLAND CITY (WABC) -- The desperate search for Avonte Oquendo continues, as the reward was increased to $70,000 for information leading to his safe return.
On Thursday, the Manhattan Children's Center, a not-for-profit private autism school, had matched the $5,000 put up Wednesday by the law firm Mayerson & Associates. Then on Friday, Autism Speaks and an anonymous donor upped that reward to $70,000.
As the search entered its eighth day Saturday, there are few clues to his possible whereabouts. Friday evening, the police and volunteers spent the evening searching the subway system.
A red tent has now been set up in front of the Center Boulevard School, where Oquendo disappeared from last Friday, to make the search more of a 24-hour operation. Volunteers, including at least one family member, are staffing it around the clock.
"We're just out here trying to give out as much information as we can to anyone that wants to help or volunteer or search for Avonte," brother Daniel Oquendo, Jr., said. "We're trying to have a family member or relative out here 24 hours a day, just in case he comes back here or anybody else wanders up here and wants to help."
Police were handing out flyers at checkpoints along the street in the search for the boy, who is autistic, non-verbal and was last seen on surveillance video running out of the school unsupervised. They also consulted psychics and have searched those locations, including a tunnel under Tompkins Square Park, but those searches have come up empty.
"Please bring him back, don't keep him if you have him," said grandmother Doris McCoy, who is convinced someone has her grandson and that he is still alive. "Be good to him. Don't abuse him. Don't hurt him."
Police blanketed the area with flyers with the boy's picture and have been spending their days searching scaffolding, rooftops and anywhere else they could think to look.
Oquendo's family is trying to stay strong and hoping he is found soon.
"I know they're going through hours and hours of surveillance, so we're just waiting to see if they get anything from that," brother Daniel Oquendo, Jr., said. "But in the meantime, we're just going to try what we can and search, search everywhere."
The family says the boy has wandered off before, and that on previous occasions, he was found on the subway.
The subway and subway tunnels have been a key location that authorities have been searching, but so far they haven't found anything.
The family now claims that a security guard saw Oquendo leave and did nothing to stop him, and also waited a long time to inform them.
"And she said, 'I saw him and I stopped and asked him, where are you going?'" McCoy said. "'And he turned around and looked at me and just walked out.'"
The Oquendo family has filed a lawsuit against the Department of Education, but they say for now, their main focus is finding him.
"We understand that a security guard apparently knew that the child left, and despite the knowledge that child left, the school didn't notify the parent for a full hour," attorney David Perecman said. "In an hour, this poor boy could have gone who knows where."
Vanessa Fontaine, the boy's mother, says watching surveillance video of her son running gives her a pit in her stomach that consists not only of fear, but also anger that nothing more was done.
"I just cry," she said. "I can't watch it because there he is in the school, and not far from him, the security guard is sitting there, and she lets him walk out the door. It's horrible."
Avonte was last seen wearing a gray striped shirt, black jeans and black sneakers. Authorities say that if you do see him, call authorities first and then follow the boy, because he may run if you approach him too quickly.
Anyone with information is asked to call the NYPD's Crime Stoppers Hotline at 800-577-TIPS.
I pray for Avonte's return home daily. We must not give up looking for this child. My heart, as it breaks for the family, continues to pray for the strength of the family and for all of those searching for him.
We must not give up, or stop praying, until this child is found!
Felicia Richardson
Posted by: Felicia Richardson | October 31, 2013 at 03:22 PM
As the mother of a nonverbal autistic young man I can't describe the heartbreak I feel to see my biggest fear materialize for this family.
I believe that places where the homeless gather (not shelters, if these exist) might be investigated. All those directly and indirectly related,i.e teachers, TAS, family, neighbors should be investigated for any reason to want to hold this child and it is too strange for him so have simply vanished in this manner. My thoughts and prayers are with Avante and his family for his safe return to his family soon.
Posted by: Maria Grullon | October 29, 2013 at 04:43 PM
@ Aussie Dad--
I think many who are watching this story closely are so deeply disturbed and so saddened, they have no words to offer. I think that in response, many parents are hugging their children tightly, praying to God that this doesn't happen to their own affected children, and contacting their schools to make certain someone is properly watching their children at all times to make sure this inexplicable mistake at Avonte's school isn't repeated anywhere else.
I feel as Mr. Moffit does. How is it possible that a young boy who needs food and water like the rest of us, hasn't been spotted anywhere? It seems incredible, actually, in this day of heightened camera surveillance.
I am praying for Avonte and for his family. There just are no sufficient words.
Posted by: Not an MD | October 28, 2013 at 08:44 AM
Don't worry Allah won't let anyone or anything harm Avonte may you live happily.
Posted by: Diamante Reid | October 27, 2013 at 08:58 PM
I really would like to know what was going on in the school that the child was even able to run.. I agree the security guard is at fault but what about the teacher or teachers that should have been monitoring him around the clock. I feel his parents pain I am a parent of two autistic sons one non-verbal.. I wake up thinking about Avante... Il pray for a positive outcome
Posted by: Trenna MvNeary | October 19, 2013 at 07:58 AM
Aussie Dad
I take your point but I don't think you can always measure impact by the number of comments.
Posted by: John Stone | October 16, 2013 at 04:34 AM
This article has been up for 4 days now. Only 3 comments. Is wandering so commonplace that the many readers of Age of Autism have become so desensitized? Surely not?
Posted by: Aussie Dad | October 16, 2013 at 03:53 AM
As a parent of a autistic son my heart is breaking for Avante, I'm praying for him around the clock!I I know the Lord will come though! My other son came home yesterday on train in Bensonhurst and he said they were even announcing it on the trains. Was so happy to hear that! Praise God!!!!
KEEP PRAYING AND DON'T GIVE UP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Posted by: Sharon | October 13, 2013 at 02:44 PM
My heart breaks each time I hear a news-report that Avonte has not been found.
It is extremely mystifying to me how a child with Avonte's problems .. much like my own grandchild who is now fourteen years old .. also a non verbal boy .. can remain at large .. in a city that never sleeps .. with a police department of 32,000 dedicated men and women .. a few million citizens who have been alerted through extensive media coverage of Avonte's disappearance .. all trained to "see something, say something" .. for such an extended time .. without any sighting reports.
My prayers will remain with Avonte and his family for his safe return .. as Jesse is fond of saying .. "Keep hope alive".
Posted by: Bob Moffitt | October 13, 2013 at 07:13 AM
My severely Autistic, non-verbal, 11-year-old son went missing for an hour a couple of weeks ago.
Police found him on another property 5 kilometres away. He was waist deep in the owners dam full of water and he cannot swim.
I wish the family all the best and never give up hope nor the fight.
Elizabeth Gillespie
Posted by: AussieMum | October 12, 2013 at 08:46 PM