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    October 09, 2008

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    KIM

    I have a problem and don't know where to turn. My son is 20 years old, very thin,
    developmentally delayed and was given 2 flu shots in 2 weeks. Ever since he breaks out
    on his chest, arms and back, it's red and itchies like crazy. If he gets in the shower or puts ice on himself it goes away,
    his doctor said it's not due to the flu shots but I know it is, who do I go to in
    order to find out for sure, any advice greatly appreciated.

    Meredith,

    I know it can be a difficult decision, but I personally, along with my husband, have decided not to let our two boys, especially Matthew, have any more flu shots--or any more shots for that matter. (We have religious exemptions for both boys.) The risks seem to outweigh the benefits for our sons.

    That said, I was nervous this past week when my older son came down with the flu. But we gave him a lot of TLC and boosted his immune system with Vit. C, D, and Zinc and after four days he was fine. If God forbid, he developed an infection we (as most Americans) live close to good doctors and hospitals so I believe the risk of serious complications is quite rare. (I have read that it is a fallacy that 36,000 people in the US "die from the flu" every year. I believe the true number is closer to 2,000--see Dr. Mercola's website for the information about this.) I guess when it comes to vaccines it all comes down to risk/benefit and everyone has to do their own research. The VAERS database (though limited because vaccine reactions are greatly under-reported) is a good place to start as well as the website www.vaccinationnews.com.

    Good luck with your decision-making!

    By the way, the most recent good news about Matthew was that on December 19th of last year, Matthew's autism diagnosis was officially removed by school officials at his final IEP meeting. Even the principal, who attended the meeting, was asking me questions about the GF/CF diet, etcetera.

    On the "Summary of Evaluations" Form that went into Matthew's record in the county school system, it read under Social/Developmental History: "No major health or medical problems reported. After receiving toddler vaccines, he demonstrated regressions. After a strict diet and interventions, he improved dramatically. He no longer is on the diet and does not currently display signs of autism or developmental delay." (This was their summary under that category--not mine--I was pleasantly surprised at the "inclusive" wording.)

    Meredith,

    My kids won't get a flu shot ever. I vote for the religious exemption or just don't send her to preschool.

    She's 23 months, and a little slow to talk?

    And with your history of a *reaction* to a flu shot?

    You might be able to get a medical exemption if you work with the right doctor.

    Good luck. I hope you come back and let us know what you decide.

    Rachel,

    Thanks for posting Matthew's story.

    I have been doing a lot of research on flu vaccine side effects, and vaccines in general as I live in NJ, a pharma-loving state and they are now FORCING parents to give flu vaccines to preschoolers. No vaccine=no preschool.

    I used to believe in flu shots, until the last time I got one. Two days after I got the shot, I became very achy which I dismissed as a mild side effect, but then it continued to worsen and I developed arthritis that lasted about 1 year. I am now pretty much back to normal, but I'm pretty certain it was the vaccine that started the arthritis.

    I let the pediatricians give many of these newer vaccines, Prevnar, Rotateq and so on to my now 23 month old daughter, (who seems ok, but isn't talking much yet--compared to her 11-year-old sister at that age). I just cannot get over how many shots these kids get now (many causing high fevers); it makes me wonder how many my kids' kids will get? How can the body possibly tolerate all those? I am a product of the over antibiotic use era of the 70s. I have serious digestive, sinus and yeast problems due to candida overgrowth caused by way too many antibiotics as a young kid. I believe you can get too much of a good thing, such as antibiotics, vaccines, etc.

    I don't know whether to try to get a religious exemption, not send her to preschool at all or let them vaccinate my young daughter with these yearly flu shots until she's at least five (they will probably begin mandating to 18 shortly) which aren't always a good match anyway. I know you can get mercury free, but then they can have aluminum, formaldehyde or other preservatives and God knows what else.

    Pediatricians swear by these vaccines! they tell you "I vaccinate my own kids with the (poisonous) abcdefghijklm vaccines, so you should too". Or "don't call me when your kid is in intensive care from the xyz virus", What's a mom to think!

    Yesterday I got the results of recent testing at Matthew's school in order to figure out what to do with his expired and now (thankfully!) completely irrelevant IEP. The school psychologist did a full battery of tests for IQ, autism, and learning disabilities. She observed him on the playground, in the classroom, and on four different test days. She saw no sign of autism whatsoever and said he actually has "very good social skills". She said when she watched him on the playground he was a leader (playing "quarterback" in football) with his friends, but also took turns readily and sometimes complimented his friends when they made good plays!

    As far as IQ, on most scales he was between 108 and 110. The exception was the subset that tested for knowledge which was around 89. To me this is not surprising because he lost about 2 plus years of experience/knowledge-gathering while he was in, or still coming out of, his vaccine-induced fog. Since he has "improved so drastically" (her words) from his initial IQ at 2 yrs, 7 months (it was 50 then!), she said we probably won't know his true IQ until he is about age 8.

    Makes complete sense, eh? Decreasing the mercury increases the IQ (plus overall health!)...it's such a simple concept yet so many like Offit will continue to tell you that it must just be a conikydink. Because clearly, our kids must have had leaky guts and lost all their language BEFORE their shots and we just didn't notice. Of course, not putting any mercury in our helpless babies makes the MOST sense, right Dr. Offit? Oh, maybe he's the wrong person to ask.

    Amazing story and even more amazing parents. Kudos to you all!!!

    Wow! It's a small world in cyberspace. Terri, thanks so much for commenting.

    Terri was Matthew's OT through the county and worked with Matthew when he had just turned three (almost completely non-verbal, "stimmy" at times, very weak fine-motors skills, and still not potty-trained) when he was in a cross-categorical special ed. classroom. She saw him progress during that year to the point where he left the class before the year's end for a more inclusive environment. By the time she started working with him again 5 1/2 months later at his 4-year old church preschool class, she couldn't believe the change in him. She said "He is a different child!". Of course, he's also come a long way since then. It so wonderful to have professional witnesses to the changes in Matthew when some people (even some family members!) dare to say that he just "grew out of it".

    Terri, Thanks so much for your fine work with Matthew (you wouldn't believe his penmanship now!) and for your kind words and support. The children with autism and related disorders you work with are so blessed to have you!

    Rachel,

    I just happened to find Matthew's story this morning as I was googling flu symptoms. Even though you had previously shared Matthew's story with me at the Kirk, reading the updates and seeing the picture of Matthew playing soccer made me smile and brought tears to my eyes. I had heard from Vicki that things were going really well. I am so happy for Matthew and your family. I have worked with several students since Matthew that have reminded me of him. I always think, "Maybe he/she will be another Matthew". I wish all kids were as lucky and had such dedicated parents as you. I look forward to future updates.

    Terri Bailey

    Just wanted to share some information from an online friend of mine who recently posted this information. I've told her about the DAN protocol but does anyone have more info. to add:

    MY SON RECIEVE A FLU SHOT AT THE AGE OF ONE. AT ABOUT 15 MONTHS HE STARTED TO LOSE WORDS AND BY 18 MONTHS ALL WORDS WHERE LOST. AT 21 MONTHS HE HAD A MRI DONE THAT SHOWED THAT THE WHITE AND GRAY MATTER IN HIS BRAIN WAS DECREASING ON THE LEFT SIDE. IT DID EVENTUALLY STOP, BUT THE NEURO STILL DON'T HAVE A CLUE AS TO WHAT CAUSED IT AND IN THE MIST OF HIS BRAIN DECREASING HE NOW SUFFERS FROM SEIZURES AND THERE HARD TO CONTROL WITH MEDICINE. HE'S BEEN TO SEE GENETICS, WHITE MATTER CLINIC AND NO ONE HAS A CLUE, BUT IF YOU ASK ME I THINK IT WAS THE FLU SHOT. MY SON WAS NORMAL SPEAKING AT 8 MONTHS AND WAS SAYING ABOUT 6-8 WORDS INCLUDING HAMBUGER. IF ANYONE HAD THIS EXPERIENCE OR KNOW OF A GOOD DOCTOR THAT CAN HELP I WOULD GREATLY APPRECIATE IT.

    This sounds like a wish that could possibly come true--at least I think I could come to NJ or you could certainly use my story (with before and after video clips and pictures) to help make a statement. I do think our experience is a little bit unique in the sense that we did blood tests by Matthew's mainstream pediatrician (at my request of course) for mercury exposure somewhat close in time to the administration of the vaccines and Matthew came out positive (certainly before he ever consumed any fish). In addition we quickly ruled out household and water contamination and Matthew was cared for almost exclusively in our home from birth to two.

    So let me know when your community is having this fundraiser and I will try to be there or send a DVD for you to use.

    Rachel Ford - and Katie Wright: "I wish autism researchers would study the incredible journeys of the Matthews everywhere."
    I join with you, and also have a wish: as a special education teacher (who sees so much in the disability characteristics of my students and many children that correspond to all we are understanding about the array of affect caused by vaccine ingredients), and as a mother of a 16 year old with autism, whom we have been treating for mercury exposure since 1999 when a co-worker handed my husband a small UPI newsclip stating that vaccines had turned up on a list of products containing mercury slipped into a bill by a minor representative in NJ, motivated by environmental concerns, I think...

    ...my wish is that next spring, when the gung-ho autism advocacy community in my school district and county of residence undertakes annual fundraising for Autism Speaks (being more successful each year)...that somehow, a clear, simple illustration (like this, provided by Rachel) of etiology which many people who are not otherwise as tuned in or skeptical of the vaccine connection may accept...and perhaps along with a targeted statement from Katie, along the lines of her recent endorsement of Autism Speaks' new commitment to funding research which aligns with our point of view....

    ....I could request that if the fundraisers insist on sticking with Autism Speaks as the beneficiary (and they are pretty stuck)...the funds raised could at least be contingent with application to those ends, of harm caused by environmental factors, including vaccines.

    Allison,
    We have a lot in common! Dr. Megson was great and I am very glad we found her but we didn't go along with everything she suggested and I am also very glad about that. Matthew's progress was slow with roller-coaster periods but overall steady. I think (if you can!) slow and steady is a good way to go, while being very consistent with certain interventions like the diet and most supplements (in the right amounts for your child). That said, Matthew responded well to the diet and may not have been as physcically sick as other kids with autism and he was an "over-methylator" so even transdermal glutathione cream made him hyper. One B-12 shot and he was off-the-charts-hyper for a week! I guess the bottom line is that you have to follow your mommy instincts about every intervention like Jenny McCarthy says!

    We are not very happy with our former pediatric practice, but a fellow autism mom thinks at least one or two of the docs there may be coming around.

    We have now found support and significant interest in Matthew's story at Western Wake Pediatrics. Dr. Michael Smith helped us work with Dr. Megson and Dr. Tabrizi has been very interested in Matthew's story.

    Lisa, It's my understanding that many, if not most, DAN! doctors are also treating ADD/ADHD, auditory processing disorders, sensory processing disorder and other learning disabilities. Visual therapy by a functional optometrist might also be helpful for the girl you mentioned. I think many of these disoders overlap and have their beginnings in vaccine injury. Barbara Loe Fisher, director of the Nationa Vaccine Information Center (www.nvic.org), said that her son developed learning disabilities after his DTP shot. You can locate a DAN doctor near you at www.autism.com. Good luck!

    LISA --

    I'd just like to chime in regarding ADD and ADHD. Our doctor (who I believe is also Rachel's doctor in Richmond) has treated ADHD kids with great success (some have recovered completely). These issues we deal with in autism are the same issues that our neighbors are dealing with with their ADD/ADHD kids, they just don't know it. The first thimerosal (mercury) study done (then conveniently covered up) by the CDC in 1999 found a significant statistical link between not only thimerosal-containing vaccines and autism, but thimerosal-containing vaccines and ADHD and ADD. You can find it on the internet - it is "Phase I" of the Thimerosal Vaccine Safety Datalink Study. When I share my son's story about how he was injured by mercury in his vaccines, I am frequently asked by skeptics "Since all kids are vaccinated, why didn't it affect all of them?" My answer is always "How do you know it didn't affect them all?" When you go past the autism epidemic and consider the sheer numbers of kids in school today with ADD and ADHD, you begin to get an idea of the scope of the damage that thoughtless over-vaccination in the 1990s has done.

    Thanks for being a great teacher who cares about kids!!!!
    allison

    Thanks for this great report, Rachel. We are in Wake Co and see Dr. Megson! Your story is so similar to ours in many ways. I am thrilled for you and your family that Matthew has made so full a recovery! Only moms with injured children can know what an unbelievable gift healing and recovery is!! My son is 10, has come a million miles from the horror he lived in when he was two and three, but is still not fully recovered. But "Never Give Up" is our motto, and God's timing and plan is perfect.

    I'd love to know who you're pediatrician was , and if you have found anyone in this area (ped or family doctor) who has been open-minded and supportive of your efforts.
    Thanks, and God Bless!!

    Allison

    Thanks for all of the kind words and comments. Someone asked about enzymes. The enzymes we currently use are DPP-IV complete from Kirkmans Lab. It seems to limit Matthews reaction (peptides?) when he eats occasinal dairy products. Of course we avoided dairy like the plague when he was younger (very strict gf/cf/sf), but now he seems to be able to handle it. Still I think if we overdo the pizza or have dairy too many meals in a row, he will be a little "off his game". Fortunately, Matthew himself seems to realize this now and will sometimes go along with me when I suggest an alternative food to his favorite pizza.

    Ellie, I would love to meet with you and offer any help or support I can.

    Katie Wright, Thank you for commenting on my story. Best wishes to you and your son and all of your efforts to educate parents. I've been following your story for the last couple of years.

    Wow! Your story is our story in so many ways - I'm overjoyed to read this. I am going to share this with all of my family and friends so that they will have a clearer way to understand what our lives are filled with today. We also live in Wake County - would LOVE to meet you - and our son who is 2 has just been diagnosed this summer, he's on the diet and just now, seeing a DAN doc.
    I too believe that his shots at 1 year and 15 months are what sent him into hibernation.
    I'm so encouraged by your story and hope that I can share our successes one day, as well.

    Cheers!

    Managing Editor's Note: Hi, Lori. Many of us use Houston Nutraceutical's brand enzymes in conjunction with the diet. Some use the enzymes in place of the diet. Click into our sponsor OurKidsASD's ad on the right sidebar. You'll find the enzymes there. Best, Kim S.

    I'd never heard of enzymes that can help break down casein and gluten. Can you tell me the name of them or anything else about them?

    Thank you for sharing your inspirational story about Matthew, Rachel. The thrill of hearing your son say, "I love you Mommy!" must have been so amazing. I so admire your dedication and drive to follow your instincts. Your family worked so hard for that to happen. I wish autism researchers would study the incredible journeys of the Matthews everywhere.

    Comgratulations!!! I know in time it will happen for all of our kids.

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